mommy... you're so busy....

I admit I have always been busy in my life. I am the type of person who doesn't want to stay in one place. I love to go out or do something else once in a while. I was once known to be so "lakwatsera"... since I love going out with friends, even just to the houses of my friends just to make chika...

But when I got married, some things changed...well in some aspects. I am busy still but not that "lakwatsera" anymore. My priorities have shifted from myself to my family. Before, I used to go out with friends so often pero hindi na ngaun. I love bonding with Ate Bea and Denise more. I still love strolling in the malls but now with my 2 super kulit kids. It feels heaven when you see them so happy and satisfied kahit minsan naiinis nako sa sobrang kakaturo ng kung anu anu... hehehehe


Pero lately... I have been so so busy, juggling my career, family and personal life. I have so many things to do everyday. So many things going on in my mind, i have to think of the construction, bea's school activities, Denise's needs, household needs, work deliverables and some personal stuff. Nakaklimutan ko na nga minsan if nakakatulog ako eh! That's how busy I am and I do not realize that....


Pero do you know what made me realize that I have been very busy these past few days (or months already)? rather who made me realize that... Ate Bea.... She was always asking me "Mommy, me pasok ka pa?". And whenever I answer her "Yes Ate meron pa..." I will always get this reply... "Mommy, lagi ka naman umaalis eh... kahit wala kang pasok umaalis ka parin.. D2 ka nalang...." Parang nagising ako and I realized that I have been stealing the time for my kids already. It's breaking my heart pero I have no choice, It's a one woman team ika nga. I am the only one in charge of everything kasi wla si Nelson. How I wish I can explain that to them the way they will understand it...

For now I have no choice, konting tiis nalang anak... Mommy will be back home soon....

On to the 6th week...

12 Rules For A Happy marriage

Just sharing this for all the married couples out there, check if you've been doing the rules below and reflect if you're making or keeping your marriage in a "Happy" state or you're doing the otherwise.....

1. Never both be angry at the same time

2. Never yell at each other unless the house is on fire

3. Yield to the wishes of the other

4. If you have a choice between making yourself look better or your mate always choose your mate

5. If you feel you have to criticize do so lovingly

6. Never bring up a mistake of the past

7. Neglect the whole world instead of each other

8. Never let one day end without saying at least one complimentary thing to your mate

9. Never meet without an affecionate welcome

10. Never go to bed mad

11. When you have made a mistake talk it out and ask for forgiveness

12. It takes two to make an argument. The one who is wrong usually is the one who does most of the talking


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when you feel all alone...

There will always be some point in your life when you seem to feel so alone....
...those were the times when you are expecting that somebody should be there to catch you when it seems that you are falling apart...
...those were the times when you need somebody to accompany you when the road seems to lead to nowhere...
...those were the times when you are expecting someone to hold your hand and tell you that everything will be fine...
...those were the moments when your waiting for someone to dry the tears in the corner of your eyes...

Is this how it should be when they tell you that your strong enough to face everything?

Our house perspective....

Grabe!!! It's been almost a month since my last post here.... I mean yung post na meron talaga akong comments ha!.... Been so busy this past few weeks... specially now na I have no helper sa house namin. I had to do the house chores by myself, umuwi na kasi yung cousin ko who offered help when Denise's yaya left us (a week before end of January). My cuz Khate a.k.a Bibe (hihihi) will start working in a Pharmacy in Valenzuela so she went home already last sunday... tapos I had to go back and forth Dasma to visit the site, sometimes up to 3x a week to check the progress sometimes to drop and fetch Papa, he's staying there to man the workers.
Buti nalang anjan si Papa, to take my place and supervise the entire construction....

Well, enough for my reasons of not blogging as often as i should. Let's go back to my main purpose of blogging today... I'd like to share with you a photo which I personally draw. This is the perspective of our house, thanks to my artistic ability, I was able to draw how I envision it, wala kasi talaga kaming perspective eh. This is how i see the windows, doors, balcony, gate... I've done the rendering also pero subject to changes but the design is not expected to change. I'll post again a photo once it's 100% done so I can compare my expectation against the actual output. Watch out for that!!!!! =)

Construction pictures - 1st week accomplishment

May rainbow nung nag buhos, for me it signifies blessing, He was blessing our house... Thank you po!